You and yourself in the mirror
TAKE THE CHAIN ANDLIVE THE PAIN
INTRODUCTIONThe few lines gather seen to open the mind of people to view better than there opt to think of themselves. Choice is one disease that have problem our psychology for long with better or no change to the disease yet it keep in the heart of men the eat up the little sense of self confidence on ourselves.Choice as that double driver who drive same car, same time, same rage in the same spot with different wheel to move with. Choices operate as an attribute of our life, it determined the manner we eat, the character you possess, the speeches we use hence attitude is everything. These are the product of our mind the mind clone our tort and it is enhance by that power that control our activities which is the power house of our choices, as humans in the world where we hustle to make ends meet, Choice occupy ninety percent of our begin the world, even the planet in design as a product choice, its decision is rule by the power of choice which lives and depend on it
CHAPTER ONE:UNDERSTANDING YOURSELF AND CHOICE
YOUSELFThe pronoun “You” and its possessive form pronoun your seen to give a details information on who we are to the outer society about our really self in the shadow of our human body and what make us humans.
CHOICEThe engine controlling every nature in the existence of humanity is the fact that the world is growing to a particular direction, this direction coin us to a part where it seen to support our metal self and the social life of our existence giving us a hope of another future, a future that might not hold front if not properly selected or choose, it draw us a printed wall a path that has many ups and downs yet can be achieved.We are all master to our world no matter the social, individual differences we are heroes to our little capacity, we are Amazon to greater thing, we are the artist to our life, we are the challenge that we most face, we are who we are.A novelist once said; Art is man’s constant effort created for himself a different order of reality from that which is given to him (prof. Chinua Achebe)All action we take lies on our attitudes which depend on our choice of life. Choice has its own negative and positive impact on us as human and nature.The way we do things, the way we reason all this depends on the choices we make, A maxim statement goes money is the root of all evil and it make the world to go round which culminates into another wise saying by Adam Smith in the 16th century 1776, Thus human wants are insatiable, the ‘question now goes those that are poor and still perpetuate evil, does money make them to do evil’?This is only possible to the heart that follow the dance of the music of the money that makes them do evil, evil is the inner voice that control a man in order to conceived the tort of doing things the is not good to the greater percentage of humanity. Many may argue that money make the world to go round perhaps the study of geography never review that the earth rotate with the help of money, right from the creation day the world have been going round in the way that it was design to.Everything we do as human is what we believe on; that is manifested the way we dream of it as such everybody is the attribute of his own problems, himself and the future. Thousand time people advance to the Diviners and pastors for prayers to foreseen their destiny, what the future holds for but is funny to note that this people can’t even solve their own family problems rather another assistant from a third party is involved in the process, we all are the architect of our own problems, we are design for that purpose at that period of time, accept the faith, work with the enthusiasm that is the challenge is but for a moment.Ola Rotimi once said that ‘the struggle of a man begins at birth’ to this fact it simply mean that whatever you want you fight for it then this will draw your cotton to the choices you will take in the race of life that you will face the period that you will live in the planet. This choices define you, it build you, give you, it paint you a picture of the inhabitant that you are really are.Choices operate as an attribute of our life, it determined the manner we eat, the character you possess, the speeches we use hence attitude is everything. These are the product of our mind the mind clone our tort and it is enhance by that power that control our activities which is the power house of our choices, as humans in the world where we hustle to make ends meet, Choice occupy ninety percent of our begin in the world, even the planet is design as a product choice, its decision is rule by the power of choice which we lives and depend on it.Choice works like a mental drummer deciding which to keep and which to take, which to build and which is fake, the path to dwell either negative or positive. Making choices is not the problem but to fight the choice that you have already made is the issue that required story from the gods is it positive to you and negative the people that live around you or is it negative to you and positive to the people around you.Independent nations now, were once fought for by the people, there did scrabble for power to have their own sovereignty, power to rule her people. This was the choice of her leaders that took a struggle to have an independent nation. Nelson Mandela of South African spend twenty-seven year in the prison as a prisoner in his own country was as the result that he know the right of is people and took a choice to suffer for it not minding his family and the problems he will face thereof, Dr. Martin Cooper of USA in 1973 invented a cell phone as a result of quest for good communication system in the world and the easy passing of information between people of far distance, Karl Benz of Germany in 1885 invented a car to the people of Germany now is the tool that is aiding the transportation system of the universe that is now advance to various model, types and with powerful design but this is the idea of one man the choice of a single brain.WHAT IS CHOICECommunication in the time of the invention which now have break the barrier in sending and receiving message across the globe as trace us to Many scholars who have given their numerous definitions to the concept choice, oxford dictionary defined Choice as an act of choosing between two or more possibilities but to my ideology, I define it as you, it is your mental self design on the physical self manifestation, it is the actualization of the dream, vision that is nurture in the heart of the human and animals. It is the inner speaker that rings the bell when we are face with second tort, it is the drummer that has the drum strike to beat any time we are face by Mr Challenge, the you in you is the manifest of the heart out come.Choice is like the stadium that players play football, in the field during the football match we face with two main challenge either to win or lose, twenty-two player running after one man which is Mr Ball, two coaches deciding the faith of the team, extra players sitting waiting to be called upon, audience watching, fans shouting for her players, media men and camera running towards each player to get the best shot, referee running after the ball and the player to make a fail judgment, the ball running from one foot to the other, the commentator doing their thing, the gamblers betting, but the key word here is who will win and who will lose or is the match going to be a draw match, these are the three key words one have in mind; “Win, Lose and draw”.Everything in the field is importance to the match to be success but some seem so importance than the others, so as choice we take, the choice we make it negative an positive value and this can stand a taste of time when neededHOW TO KNOW THE CHOICE YOU HAVE TAKENMany scholar have given their various way of viewing the concept Choice, some have given a vivid look on the concept and the way of making a right in life. The misplacing of this words are ignorantly use by people some mistake choice to Desire, Talent and Decision, although this two concept are wrongly place but there have different way they are acted upon.According to the oxford dictionary defined Choice as an act of choosing between two or more possibilities, Desire is a strong quest or wish to have or do something, Decision is the choosing or taking an action to act upon while Talent is a nature gift by the creator.To a close look decision share same element to choice perhaps choice is far beyond that which people think of it; knowing our desire can’t be our choice because our desire in driven by emotions, for instance our intention of becoming academician or out spoken like great men that speak very well does not make you one rather you are aspirating to be like somebody that you cannot tell about,Note: People inward character is not the same as the outward character, “human are highly known as copy cat”.In a simply explanation of the different concept; It is only desire hearts that drive us to be like that fellow, which does not make you that person, choice works in accordance with nature and yourself, “this was a tort”, not mining the risk after or future, the things we will face along the line.Some have taken choice as a talent but talent is a inbuilt element, a supernatural gift possess by one without any lesson or training gotten from any means, talent is that which we display from our inner self so is not the inner possession but that which the heart work in accordance with for a perfect combination that we produce a better fulfillment of what the heart feels, the body, our emotional, psychological, physical work with.The choice of another person cannot be yours, two human cannot possess same choice select, two identical twins can stand before you and these twin cannot make same choices. The true is we are easily influence with the choices our friends or families member who opt to help us to abide to or the attitude of our peer which can control our choices,Note that the others people character or choice can only add to our own idea to make a perfect choice out of what we want, it will pleased you to know that there is no perfect choice ever, all choice we make has one form of disadvantage to the other, either negative or positive but the good thing we should learn is that everything happen for a reason or it happen for the better understanding of nature or the existence of life better. .Knowing your choice deserved an ethical thinking, a careful mind to think better.· Thinking is one examination that is not easily pass, thinking is one tool that can give you both bad and good outcome perhaps thinking is guided by two gods (evil and good).· Thinking is one author of his own, she write with two biros and she write fast than the best human writer. With the two pens she writes without making any mistake in the various topics she wants to write upon.· Thinking is one man that can course psychological drummer, emotional problem, heart attack, high blood pressure name it.Knowing the choice to take is just as entrepreneur who will brain storm on opportunities, ideas then come with conclusion he want to work with and try his best to achieved the idea, goal gotten early, he will never be afraid of the risk taken hence he takes moderate risk, he is not afraid of failure because he see failure as a strength to work on. Do not judge me by the my successes, judge me by the number of times I fell down and I got up again, (Nelson Mandela speak), often we are focus on people success story not knowing what it took them to that height there are now.
CHAPTER TWO:STEPS TO FOLLOW TO KNOW YOUR CHOICE IF RIGHT OR WRONG
The following might not be the perfect apparatus for you to work upon but stand as an idea to work as a tool one need to be guided with to make a good thing out of himself after he has taken a choice he want to work with.1. WHAT DO PEOPLE SAY ABOUT YOUR: People personality is often build by reputation in the heart of others, over 90% of who we are is decided by people around us, that is to say we all deserves one each other in one way or the other either directly or indirectly